The Friday Clive

"Most, I fancy, have discovered that to be born is to be exposed to delights and miseries greater than imagination could have anticipated; that the choice of ways at any cross-road may be more important than we think; and that short cuts may lead to very nasty places."
Taken from Selected Literary Essays, "The Vision of John Bunyan" (1962)

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