Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Another Great Books student begins...

It was the fourth time someone in our family has had Day One of Great Books I. We were just a little excited.


The dulcet tones of Mr. C's voice brought the crew out to listen.


"One reason we study the Great Books is so that our souls, occasionally, can soar." Wes Callihan



A happy student, prepared with sunglasses...to protect from the blinding light of inspiration, perhaps?


Soul soaring through The Iliad has begun. Life changing times ahead!

Thursday, August 26, 2010

The newest scout in the family

Our youngest joined the scout troop in January, and he has now fulfilled the requirements for Scout, Tenderfoot and Second Class ranks. Wow! We are incredibly proud of him.

The summer is a great time for scouting adventures. Boy Scout camp happened in June, and Yosemite Creek camping was in July. Beautiful places with good friends!



Building a fire and cooking a hot dog...yes, in the front yard.




Brennan was one of two scouts who passed the swimming merit badge at camp.
(How cold was the water? Rumored to have been 48 degrees. Major Man Points.)




Not only did the best kind of friends join our troop,
but the boys were able to do their wilderness survival merit badge together.
Memory making at its finest.





Camping with Dad, brother and the troop, Yosemite Creek.



And best of all: the big sister was here to make her traditional scout rank advancement cake.

Congratulations, Brennan. Keep up the good work!

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

An evening with Mom




Just another snapshot of Mom's presence in our home. She joined us last night for In n' Out; it was a blazing night and the oven simply did not need to be turned on. She told hilarious stories of her working days. Oh, I love Mom's stories.

More summer reading quotes




"On the subject of the feminist business, I just never think, that is never think of qualities which are specifically feminine or masculine. I suppose I divide people into two classes: the Irksome and the Non-Irksome without regard to sex. Yes and there are the Medium-Irksome and the Rare Irksome."

"Nobody attains reality for my mother until he eats." (Ever know anyone like this? I sure have. Miss you, Granny!)

"Dogma can in no way limit a limitless God. The person outside the Church attaches a different meaning to it than the person in. For me a dogma is only a gateway to contemplation and is an instrument of freedom and not of restriction. It preserves mystery for the human mind. Henry James said young women of the future would know nothing of mystery or manners. He had no business to limit it to one sex."

The Habit of Being: Letters of Flannery O'Connor

Oh, what a bright, funny, self-deprecating woman Flannery O'Connor was. I wish I could have known her. Her writing is encouraging me to get back to putting pen to paper and not just relying on the computer for communication. She was a gifted correspondent and obviously a rare gem of a friend.

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

The Mom Update



For those who have been so kind as to care about my mother, it seems that I am way overdue on an update on how she is doing.

She is FINE. Can you believe it? Excuse me while I say it a few more times...She is FINE. She Is FINE.

Oh, do I like how that sounds.

She has taken Dial-A-Ride again. She has been to Brennan's basketball games. She likes to monitor the watering in the front yard. She is hoping to get a few sewing projects done. She is, once again, getting all her ironing done. (If there is one thing I have learned about my mother in the last year it is that her ironing is a priority. Once again I have to ask the question: where did I come from?)




Last June I looked ahead and tried to prepare myself for the dark, only to be met by glorious light; it is hard to catch my breath with all the relief and joy and gratitude that is pouring forth.

There will come a day when we need to learn to be grateful for difficult days; for today, though, we rejoice in FINE.

Thanks for caring and for your prayers. Don't stop!

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Quotes from the summer reading list



"Why is Form beautiful? Because, I think, it helps us meet our worst fear, the suspicion that life may be chaos and that therefore our suffering is without meaning..."
"William Carlos Williams said that poets write for a single reason - to give witness to splendor (a word also used by Thomas Aquinas in defining the beautiful). It is a useful word, especially for a photographer, because it implies light - light of overwhelming intensity. The Form toward which art points is of an incontrovertible brilliance, but it is also far too intense to examine directly. We are compelled to understand Form by its fragmentary reflection in the daily objects around us; art will never fully define light."
(bold emphasis mine.)
Beauty in Photography





"Forget writing, it's a trivial matter. But day in day out, when the inarticulate patient struggles to lay himself bare for you, or with nothing more than a boil on his back is so caught off balance that he reveals some secret twist of a whole community's pathetic way of thought, a man is suddenly seized again with a desire to speak of the underground stream which for a moment has come up just under the surface."
The Doctor Stories by William Carlos Williams



"As they continue to follow the path deeper into the woods, the mother keeps an eye on her daughter, but Josip is staring simultaneously inward and upward, and also connecting to the colors blazing all around him. 'We are so blind, so blind!' he groans, flailing his arms for emphasis, his face flushing, his voice intense with the excitement of this new discovery. 'It's as if heaven is raining miracles upon us, but we cannot see because we do not look. It's as if fabulous birds fall unceasingly from the skies!'

'Peacocks and ostriches?' she laughs.

'No, no, I mean fabulous because they exist - fabulous birds are ---'

At the very moment when he flings out his right arm and says fabulous birds, a flash of blue catches his eye at the end of his hand. Halting abruptly, he gazes along his arm, off the springboard of his hand, and sees the stroke of blue lying in a pile of red leaves. He drops his arms and goes to it, kneeling down to find out what it is. It's a bird. A very little bird that is unfamiliar to him. Miriam kneels beside him as he picks it up in his hand and lets it rest there, as if it were sleeping. It is warm, it has died only a moment before.

'An Indigo Bunting', whispers Miriam. 'I've never seen one before, never this close, I mean.'

...The bird's apparently insignificant form is so elegant, so perfectly shaped for the wind, its form and function so integrated, that the genius of whoever sculpted it is beyond question. Moreover, its feathers are a rare kind of iridescent blue, falling from the turquoise of the head to the dark indigo tail in a perfect gradation through that part of the spectrum, without any discernible transition zones of shade or tone.

'Who designed this little masterpiece?' says Miriam shaking her head in wonder.

Josep lays its body on the ground and covers it with leaves.

'And so death entered the world', Miriam whispers. They walk on, and for a while can say nothing.

Island of the World by Michael O'Brien

Friday, August 20, 2010

Speaking the truth to myself


What do you do when worries assail you? When the darkness seems to be winning over light and hope?

Yesterday was just such a day. There are plenty of real and imagined problems in this circle of quiet...some are today's concerns, some are tomorrow's possibilities, and I am not doing a great job of remembering what is true. Why is truth so hard to grasp?





So last night I ventured out to water the yard. I breathed in lavender and rosemary, surveyed bolted lettuce, picked (and ate) tomatoes from the vine, and planned for fall plantings. I wondered about fruitless bean vines and over-planted beds resulting in chaos. I walked under the towering sunflower, saw the rising moon in the sky, and watched the canopy overhead change from blue to periwinkle to black. Somewhere in the midst of the sprinkler's spray, the mosquito's buzzing and the slurping of tomato juice, I found a moment's peace and could remember these words of timeless comfort:

Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Matthew 11:28

Our Father, which art in heaven,
hallowed be thy name;
thy kingdom come;
thy will be done,
in earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive them that trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation;
but deliver us from evil.

The Lord's Prayer




The Truth doesn't take problems away; it didn't, in fact, help me sleep last night, but it is True. And truth matters.

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Holding tight to summer



The weather says summer, the flowers and vegetables growing in the yard are smelling and tasting and looking like summer, but the autumn rumbling has begun. My husband has been back in the classroom for over a week, and the junior college is sending emails every few hours with reminders for class requirements, books to purchase, and handy hints for success; those classes begin on Monday.

The three homeschoolers are showing classic signs of being ready for action: a fascination with notebooks and planners, an interest in the reading lists, and plenty of questions about what is on the horizon. I am glad they are getting excited.




We still have another week-and-a-half, though. I have cupboards yet to clean, cantaloupe sorbet to savor, plans to complete, cherry tomatoes to eat straight off the vine (or with balls of mozzarella drizzled with oil and vinegar), meals to freeze, and naps to take. Books to finish! Lists to check off!!

Alas, I am not ready to finish summer yet.

But finish it will, and the rhythms of autumn will be welcome. Just not quite yet, please.

Photo credit goes to my dear daughter Claire.

Friday, August 13, 2010

Looking for answers in a cup of coffee




There's nothing like school planning to make me stare out the window, or into the depths of my coffee cup, looking for answers. What to study? What not to study? How to coordinate everyone in a humane way? You'd think I'd have a handle on this, wouldn't you? I have been doing this homeschool thing for fourteen years. But, alas, I have to take time every summer's end to question and reposition and analyze. Somehow it helps, and somehow, by God's grace, the answers come. It isn't that hard, and if this is the life to which I am called, then I can do the coming year with courage and grace.

But this week I stare. And drink coffee. And pray. And begin to write the script for the play we shall all be in this year.



The Friday Clive

"We need intimate knowledge of the past. Not that the past has any magic about it, but because we cannot study the future, and yet need something to set against the present, to remind us that the basic assumptions have been quite different in different periods and that much which seems certain to the uneducated is merely temporary in fashion. A man who has lived in many places is not likely to be deceived by the local errors of his native village: the scholar has lived in many times and is therefore in some degree immune from the great cataract of nonsense that pours from the press and the microphone of his own age."



Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Traveling like us....

What is a family to do when they have seven seats, seven family members, and loads of stuff to pack?




We've used a roof bag for years, but this year that was not enough. We needed sleeping bags for our stop in Eugene, and we had extra luggage because we were sending one son off on a second week of vacation after we were done at the beach.





Fortunately for us, our friend Mike has designed the perfect solution.

Meet the AeroPACK:







From the website:

"I discovered that roof mount carriers (boxes, racks and bags) are a pain to load, rob mileage, and can take up a lot of garage space. I felt there had to be a better way, so I developed AeroPACK. It mounts out of the wind stream, is fast to put on and take off, the aerodynamic design improves air flow, and it folds flat for easy storage.

AeroPACK is a new class of cargo carrier that is easy to use, rugged, fits all types of cars and vans and saves fuel. Customers say it is ideal to carry camping gear, sports equipment, luggage and other soft gear. It is flexible to fit on sedans, minivans, hatch backs, wagons, vans and even the Prius! If you have a compact car or just need more room for your gear, AeroPACK is the answer."





To get more information, or to order your AeroPACK, contact Mike at their website. We love the pack, we love Mike, and we recommend both to you.

And maybe one of these days we can enjoy the aerodynamic benefits of the AeroPACK by getting rid of the roof bag. Probably not soon, but someday.

Monday, August 09, 2010

Alexander Pope (1688 - 1744)







Ode on Solitude


Happy the man, whose wish and care
A few paternal acres bound,
Content to breathe his native air,
In his own ground.

Whose herds with milk, whose fields with bread,
Whose flocks supply him with attire,
Whose trees in summer yield him shade,
In winter fire.

Blest! who can unconcern'dly find
Hours, days, and years slide soft away,
In health of body, peace of mind,
Quiet by day,

Sound sleep by night; study and ease
Together mix'd; sweet recreation,
And innocence, which most does please,
With meditation.

Thus let me live, unseen, unknown;
Thus unlamented let me dye;
Steal from the world, and not a stone
Tell where I lye.


HT: Wes Callihan

Sunday, August 08, 2010

And suddenly she is twenty



The days have flown since she became Madelaine and I became "Mama."


Madelaine's special grown ups came to visit on just the right day.


Happy birthday, dear one.

I love you so.

Tuesday, August 03, 2010

And then he started playing the harmonica...



We have hit the vacation trail.



All seven of us. And a guitar. And an IPod. And a harmonica.
We do not do quiet when we're road trippin'.





We've seen the same sights we see every year.
(Yes, that is a cow sculpture. Yes, in the middle of nowhere. And, yes, I took a picture of it.)




We found this sign and photographed it just for Juliet.




We spent the night at Gutenberg, our daughter's home-away-from-home during the school year.




It gave us a chance to stretch our legs, meet great people, and play some music.




And now we are at the coast, our favorite place for summer memories.

And the perfect spot to think complete, uninterrupted thoughts.

I have a lot of thinking and praying and planning and wondering to do. Fortunately, I have the sea air coming in my window and a little coffee pot on the counter, just waiting to brew French roast for me should I need it.

And I have time. Blessed time.

It promises to be a good week.